Maybe they have “broken up” or divorced recently…
Maye someone has picked on them…
Laughed at them…
Bullied them…
Someone who hates someone… this FUELS a person
Hate is powerful!
The best revenge is massive success
-Frank Sinatra
If you got someone you hate, or if someone has hurt you, maybe life hurt you? Took someone you love away from you?
How to use hate
You can use that “hate” to achieve your goals, to punish them!
Hate is motivation!
Let me take the great football (soccer) player Zlatan Ibrahimovic (Ibra) for example.
He grew up in Sweden, in a so-called (Swedish) ghetto. He got to play with blond Swedish guys early on in his football career.
- He was different from an immigrant family
- Nobody believed in him
- Then he got hated on (jealousy)
He got angry and wanted to show them!
He STILL uses this “hate” to succeed, he uses it as fuel, he uses it to be unstoppable… and he is.
He is one of my absolute biggest inspirations by the way
It´s the same with me… I am a short guy… and when I was a child and in my early teens I was always skinny… Also I kind of looked different (due to my Spanish heritage) than the tall (most blonde) typical Swedish guys…
Needless to say, I got into many fights, you know how kids are, right?
So I got angry and started to work out, lifting weights.
I wanted to be prepared to fight anyone… no matter how big, and no matter if they were 2 or even 3 guys… I was gonna “kill” them lol!
Funny thing though, when I had put on my muscle… it stopped… nobody wanted to fight with me anymore…
My absolute worst “hate” experience
Or when life hurt me so bad a couple of years ago… It gave my father cancer and took his life…
I got angry again… I promised my dad, my self, and god that I would create and succeed with an online business no matter what!
Once again I was fueled by hate… and I used it… I still use it!
Not (at all) saying that I am Ibra, but I identify with him, I understand him, and I got a similar mindset… a winner, work hard mentality.
Conclusion
If you can find somebody (or something) to hate, and then channel that energy into something you will be able to accomplish great things. You have to transmute that energy into achieving your goals.
For the HATE.
I think it is more powerful than love… at least in my experience so far in life…
Many people tell me all the time, thank you for being so positive John, you are such a “joy spreader” and yeah I guess, maybe I am…
But… Make no mistake… I wake up every morning with hate in my heart… Hate for my enemies. That is what drives me to do what most aren´t prepared to do…
I want to KILL my enemies (not literally) but I want to be so successful that it brings them pain. It should be painful for them to see it…
I don´t know if that is positive or not but it fuels me.
So please, don´t always “turn the other cheek” and don´t always forgive… Instead show them, make them feel sorry that they ever did bad to you… Make them eat their laughs up…
Sometimes I make my real friends and loved ones “hate” me… I pick on them… I sacrifice myself because I want to awake hate in them and use it to show me… It works sometimes, sometimes they see through my tactic though :o)
Anyway… If you got someone, some people, or something that you hate… Don´t punish (fight with) them… Instead, make yourself so successful that they will feel very bad.
You know why? Because nothing will make a hater feel worse than seeing you being successful.
Use the hate to get yourself up from bed every morning!
Hope you found this short post on how to use hate to be helpful, and please share your thought in the comment section below! If you have any questions I will be more than happy to answer them below!
I wish you the best
/John
Founder of: $tart Make $top Waste
